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my secret love
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Submitted by julliette
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I've been mailing a man for a long time, I did not know how it happened but I fell in love with him. In our letters we've been talking about everything in relation with our lives, he writes about his everyday life his activities his friends. We have pics of each other. I realised that we have many things in common. The problem is he already talked to me about a friends of his (a women) I still do not know how far is the relation between the two… I do not want to ask, I am afraid it would be misunderstood; but I cannot keep silent and live on fire. My feelings towards him are getting stronger everyday. (By the way the man is living very far of me). I can’t tell about my feelings I do not want him to simply sympathise with me, then I will lose his friendship.
I can’t stand it anymore; this feeling of mine is just killing me.
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Your post stirred up many old memories for me.
There was this certain someone for me too, someone I could not stop thinking of, occupied my thoughts day and night, awake or asleep.
I felt like my life would not be complete unless we were together, it was all consuming, and so debilitating that I sometimes could not go to work.
Please hear me on this, there are very few happy endings in this situation. Try and tear yourself away from it because especially in your case where he doesn't even live close to you, the chances of things working out well are remote.
Your alternative solution is to confront him, and then if things go badly, hopefully out of touch is out of mind for you, but at least you will have some closure to this whole thing and can move on to the next thing.
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