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I have been with my Boyfriend for almost 2 years. At the beginning of our realationship it was perfect, then when we moved in together he told me that he was stuck between me and his wife. I was not upset but he shouldn't have asked me to be his girlfriend if he wanted to be with her.

Well after that I told him I wwas leaving and he said no, I don't want you to leave, I love you. I was just going to leave because we were at the early stages of our ralationship where I just loved him but wasn't 'in love' with him yet. So that went through.

Last year in September we had a baby together, and everything was going great and last Saturday night he said he got an email from his wife saying she is finishing school in 2 weeks and was going to come here to be with him. I lost it, here it is a year and a half past and this comes up again.

We slept on it and that morning I told him if he wanted to say bye to his son before I found a place to stay he should. He said no I don't want you to go. I told him the only way I was staying here If he ends all ties with her through email and through the phone and he gets a divorce because I am tired of our relationship being in jepardy when it comes to her.

She lives in Australia they haven't seen each other in like 4 years and I told him I am here, she is there, and I am real and my feelings are real. I told him he has to give me security and he needs to call her and tell her while I am there that it's over and he's getting a divorce because I have had it.

I read a email from her replying to him and it said she had a girlfriend and he would love her and at the end it said you know why Pam freaks out?

What am I to do? He has her number now and hasn't called her yet. What does that mean "you know why pam freaks out"? He had to say I freaked out or something, but I will be so lost without him when he told me that I was so close to totally losing it. I really need a shoulder to cry on or a great person to talk with. Thank you for hearing me out:)