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My BF Stays in contact with his ex's but one is crazy!! Is it normal? Submitted by AAA
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My boyfriend stays in contact with his ex's which I don't have a problem with at all. But one of his ex's is crazy! They had a very sexual relationship, so that changes the whole staying friends after they broke up. She desperately wants him back and does crazy stuff to him all of the time. She calls him all of the time, and talks on AIM with him too, and she leaves stuff at his house all of the time when they hang out (once/week or every other week, cause she's always asking to hang out)

She's so psycho that she will follow him to work, and drive by his apartment and once I was over and we weren't even a thing yet and as I left the apartment to get something from my car she pushed me and busted the door open and starting yelling at him etc, and I didn't come back for a while.

She's hacked into his computer and knows what he says to me on the internet. She leaves inappropriate notes on his car. She's taken his car, it never ends!!!! They broke up in January! He still wants to be friends with her cause she doesn't have anyone to talk to and they were friends before they went out and he wants to wait it out to see if they could still be friends. But she still likes him and she's crazy! He won't even tell her about us, because he's afraid she'll get physical and go crazy again.

So this whole thing bothers me and claims I see it different then him and I can't help to see that he must have some feelings still cause why would he still hang on that long with her? What should I say or do and what is the best thing he should do in the situation?????

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crazy???????? POSTED:
Wed Nov 16 2005 by taterbug
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i agree she is a little crazy, but how do you know they aren't together and he's not just playing the both of you? My b/f still talks to my cousin which he slept with (while we were together). he tells me he dont but i caught her there.

 
crazy???????? POSTED:
Wed Nov 16 2005 by taterbug
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i agree she is a little crazy, but how do you know they aren't together and he's not just playing the both of you? My b/f still talks to my cousin who he slept with (while we were together). he tells me he dont but i caught her there.

 
i am dealing with a similar situation POSTED:
Thu Sep 15 2005 by mellowyellow
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my bf seems to keep in touch w/ several of his ex's.. they live far away and we live together, so i shouldn't have an issue, right? WRONG.. he is secretive with them.. when the IM him, he quickly shuts down the IM. some of his X's are simlar to your man's X.

my advice.. he needs to be the one to say something to her. unless he stands up for your relationship, its never going to stop. you need to ask him who's feelings are more important; her's or your's!!


 
That is just crazy POSTED:
Wed Sep 14 2005 by irishbeauty84
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You need to tell him that it's uncomfortable and serious action needs to be done. Maybe all three of you should sit down.

If you can't come to a resolution and he really does fear her getting physical. Get the authorities involved but a restraining order on her.

Hey may just like the drama, but you can find that out when you talk to him..


 

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