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My BF Stays in contact with his ex's but one is crazy!! Is it normal?
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Submitted by AAA
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My boyfriend stays in contact with his ex's which I don't have a problem with at all. But one of his ex's is crazy! They had a very sexual relationship, so that changes the whole staying friends after they broke up. She desperately wants him back and does crazy stuff to him all of the time. She calls him all of the time, and talks on AIM with him too, and she leaves stuff at his house all of the time when they hang out (once/week or every other week, cause she's always asking to hang out)
She's so psycho that she will follow him to work, and drive by his apartment and once I was over and we weren't even a thing yet and as I left the apartment to get something from my car she pushed me and busted the door open and starting yelling at him etc, and I didn't come back for a while.
She's hacked into his computer and knows what he says to me on the internet. She leaves inappropriate notes on his car. She's taken his car, it never ends!!!! They broke up in January! He still wants to be friends with her cause she doesn't have anyone to talk to and they were friends before they went out and he wants to wait it out to see if they could still be friends. But she still likes him and she's crazy! He won't even tell her about us, because he's afraid she'll get physical and go crazy again.
So this whole thing bothers me and claims I see it different then him and I can't help to see that he must have some feelings still cause why would he still hang on that long with her? What should I say or do and what is the best thing he should do in the situation?????
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