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I dont think I can handle this anymore Submitted by SamanthaP
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My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me yesterday over the phone. I didn't see it coming. He said I was not relationship material (after 3 years I kind of assumed I was) and that he was getting together with his best friend's younger sister because he thought he had a real future with her and he has given this a lot of thought and there is no future with me.

I don't know what to do. I am already living alone in NY and he was the only thing I had. Now I have no friends and no him. I hate my new job and I miss college like mad. I don't konw what to do and I have no friends to talk to about this.

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Move on.....=) POSTED:
Fri Oct 21 2005 by love_stranger
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hey there...i understand how ur feeling right now...Guys like him do not deserve someone as brilliant as you...trust me...you are btr off without him....look on the bright side!!you found out his TRUE colours before you guys get married....so nw, forget your past...and move on..NY is a great place im sure you could find great people there...do take care!!
^_^


 
He is not the boss of You! POSTED:
Tue Oct 11 2005 by PrissyDoll
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He does not define who you are. Before there was him there was you. Yes, I understand that he became a part of you in the last 3 years but he is not you. It's perfectly normal to miss him and expected, but right now use this time to focus on you. This is only a storm you are going through, now you can be a victim or survivor of this storm. Get out and meet people, go and do things you like to do. It's okay treat yourself.

 
it will be okay POSTED:
Sat Oct 08 2005 by gaydiva
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My name is Tay. i am not here to judge you ma. i know it is sad and all but you have to get over it and realize he was no it for you. i know it is hard been there done that but you have to ma. try to make friends at the mall at work or even on the computer.

i will be your friend over the computer. do not jump in to anything w/ another perso just be alone for a while and then just have friends. i live in Baltimore, Maryland. just please do not blame your self.


 
ur boyfriend... POSTED:
Sun Sep 18 2005 by aze
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Dont pity urself...assess urself..
During your relationship...do you think he's a potential..u can find better than him if u wanted to...

Think this way...You only lost the man..that's all. Its better to lost him now than in the future, when u guys were already married.

I understand what u felt..but that's life. There's no such forever...people come and go...by what happened think about this..at least once in ur life u felt to be in loved and be loved.


 

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