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Hurt/ betrayed
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Submitted by prettylady1385
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Have you ever had a friend you just thought you would be friends forever until something stupid really happens? Well me and my ex-best friend were friends since kintergarden. She allowed me to stay with her until I could get myself together and get my own place, so I thought. After her lazy boyfriend got a job, she let him move back in she kicked me out. I thought we would never let a "man" come between our friendship, but i guess I was wrong. I have come to accept that now but I'll think twice before I move in with anyone else.
Can I get some comments to see what yall think. Because deep down I'm stll kinda angry with her. HELP!!!
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Hey,
I am sorry to hear that, that was mad wrong on ur ex friends part. I would like to know if she gave you a warning or some notice on advance. It would probably have never worked bc she probably would not have trusted you to leave him alone with you or whatever. You have a right to be mad and you should not understand she was wrong, and she at least owes you an apology.
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sounds like your friend wants a roommate that makes money. with a boyfriend there's an added bonus having him there. REMEMBER, SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE!
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You are wise that you will think it through before moving in with someone. There are a lot of things that many people don't consider before deciding to live together. For example, some people are messy, or noisy, or lazy, or selfish, or late on paying their half of the bills, utilities, rent, and what ever else expenses, some people bring unwelcomed guests to stay over, some people are intrusive by invading your space and privacy, sometimes they eat all your food and never buy more, some are not trust worthy or kind or considerate and therefore you can't get along. The list goes on and on.
In your case, she was only willing to help you out until she found someone else she'd rather live with. Then you were out on the street and on your own. Your "friend" didn't break any laws by making you move out, but since you guys were so close and even grew up together, I think it was really mean and unthoughtful of her to do that to you. I think you should not think she owed you anything, such as a place to stay, but never forget that this "friend" threw you out in the streets in your time of need, just so that she can shack it up all nice and cozy with a guy. You should let it go so that this doesn't eat you up anymore. But find yourself some new friends, cause it doesn't seem like you can really lean on this one during hard times. Best of luck to you.
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I am sorry to hear about what your friend did to you, that is completely wrong. You should talk to her though and tell her how you feel about it and tell her that it was wrong for her to let him get between you. Guys dont let girls get in between friendships. As the old saying goes "bros before hoes".
Just remind her of how much her friendship means to you how much you love her and tell her your hurt by this whole ordeal. Forgive and forget! Nothing is more important then friendship:)
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When I was dating my now husband, I dumped my friend one time to hang out with him instead. Later I realized I hurt my friend and apologized, but she held it against me for almost a year. I had my husband but was still really alone because I didn't have my best girlfriend.
Guys really do change a friendship but you should consider forgiving your friend and trying to adjust your relationship to work for whats right now! We did and our friendship is that much stronger for it!
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