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He hit me......Now what??
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Submitted by KAMALANI
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The other weekend, my boyfriend and I were chillin' and watching movies when I decided I'd like to take a picture of him with his camera phone.
He wouldn't let me so I called him an Ass, after which he SLAPPPED me! It wasn't hard and didn't hurt my physically, but it did hurt me emotionally, so I asked him if he had meant it and he said, "Yeah I did."
I felt like crying the whole night, but I kept it inside. It didn't make me feel any stronger holding it in, just a whole lot weaker. This is the first time that something like this has ever happened to me and I didn't and STILL don't know how to deal with it.
Sometimes I am scared to be around him, but some other times, being with him is the best time of my life. I'm confused and I don't want to be hit again, but I also don't want to leave him either.
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you need to value yourself
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LEAVE HIM! You deserve better & no one deserves to be hit!!!!! Much love & support to you, be strong!
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I was abused my whole life and once a man starts to hit, he's going to keep doing it. Don't be afraid, there's someone out there who will love you and not hit you.
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Hi, I wish you would've slapped the sh*t out of him. I just got slapped myself and it hurt... mentally and physically. I couldn't hear for a while, and now I'm scared of him and don't want to be around him. He's a bully, men that hit women aren't men, they're stupid.
xoxo coloring
stay safe.
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I hope you're okay.
However, this is a big red flag which gives a preview of the type of behavior your boyfriend is capable of showing. It's very hard when you are involved with someone and then they react in such a questionable way.
But, do yourself a favor and ask yourself if he is capable of becoming violent whenever he doesn't like what you say or do. If you answer yes, then you should decide if you want to approach him and begin communicating on how you want to be treated when there are disagreements, etc.
Some men don't know how or don't care to communicate but choose to control a situation by force. If he recognizes that is what he is doing and doesn't want to seek a better way to express himself, then you should seriously think about getting out of the relationship.
Take care!
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