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My boyfriend still talks to he Ex's
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Submitted by mellowyellow
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Should I be mad that he still has a friendship with is 3 who he considers his ex's? From the description he has given me, they sound like girls he had sex with a few times, rather than a lasting relationships.
Our most recent discussion, he said " We live together, can you be more secure in our relationship?"
We currently live together and when we've had arguements about them, he tells me " I love you and I would never do anything to destroy that".
But then why is he so secretive? In the past when I've found out (I have my ways) that he has been talking to one of them, I casually bring their names up.
I guess I need to understand why A) He still needs to be friends with these girls and B) Why he's not very open about it. Is it cause for alarm?
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Yes, we've had a couple of fights about it, and i'm trying my hardest not to let it bug me.. it's hard.
I do trust him, and don't think he's going to cheat..
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Like the other girls said, stop checking on him. If you continue to nag him about what he is doing and who he is doing it with you are going to regret it.
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Stop checking up on him. Give him the chance to do the right thing. Honestly, I wouldn't tell you about them either if I knew you were gonna get jealous.
Maybe he really does just consider them friends, and he is allowed that. Has he cheated on you before? If not, then there is no reason why you can't give him the benefit of the doubt and see what happens. you have no kind of relationship if you dont have trust.
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I feel you sweetie. I was going through the same thing myself. I have just decided that I am not going to let it drive me crazy any more. I used to get obsessed about stuff like this & it's only going to sabotage your relationship. If he wants to be single, he will be. If you think he's a cheater, then dump him. If not, then don't worry about it. Keep me posted. :)
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