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guys a lil help please
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Submitted by tinkerbell198
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ok im going out with this guy and i truly like him but im VERY protective of him and he messes around with ohter girls and i dont know what to do.
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Well, what you should do is if you really want to be with him, try distancing yourself from him. You need to act busy, and don't answer to him all the time. You are to avaiable and you need to ignore him. Either he will realize that he may lose you if he doesn't shape up, or he is not the one for you. You are not being protective by him talking to othe girls, he has given you a reason to make you become protective.
Guys are immature. Act like you don't care and dont make yourself so avaiable. Let him know what he would be missing if you weren't around all the time.
See how that works.
Jessica
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sweetheart,
you being over protecitve of him is da main problem in this situation. dont you think that if you let him breathe a bit, he would not be messing around with other girls?
freedom is the name of this game and you cant treat your man like a caged bird. that is when you push him away even further!
Stop it and focus on improving youtr relationship by Communicating with him
listen to him and and let him express himself and his fears. do the same for your self too!
give him some attention and you will see a change of heart from him
as long as you treat him like a caged brid, he will mess around and you will be so miserable, because you were the cause of it all.
lotsa pink love and crazie smiles
lebor
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u should dump his ass if hes cheaten there is no way when Hell freezes over that u should be goin out with a guy that cheats on u!
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Hey tinkerbelll198,
You may be protective of him, but he is not being protective of you and ur feelings. When you say that he messes around with other girls what do you mean? Does he kiss them? Hug them? What? Anyway it seems to me that he is being very inconsiderate talk to him, but before you do that I think you already know what you have to do.
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