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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and five months. Recently his sister passed away, well she passed away last Thursday exactly a week ago. He is so sad bc his brother passed away in a car accident like her, 8 years ago. I have never had someone real close to me pass away so I am stuck, I don't know what to say to him, I know he won't feel better from anything I may say. I call him all the time and he doesn't answer most of the time.

The funeral has not come up so the healing process has not commenced. I have to go to the funeral, and his family has never really meet me, so I will be in a very uncomfortable condition( of course I have had chances to meet them but i declined bc I am a very shy person). He tells me he loves me, but I feel our relaionship isn't the same, and I understand.

I need advice on what to do, do I keep calling him and let him know that I care or do I back away and let him come to me. I told him how I felt and he got mad bc he said that I was doubting us, and he said he does believe that we will make it, but he said he knows he will never be same, what do I do, what can I say? HELP ME, SOMEONE