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I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world, but his selfish and controlling ways have got me feeling like maybe I'd be better off not in this relationship. Everything is always about him, he's made me choose between him and my friends, my family, even sometimes my work. If something in my life doesn't involve him, he doesn't give a shit- it's stupid and unimportant. Just yesterday afternoon, I had some work I brought home but he took my laptop as soon as I walked in the door to check his stupid e-bay auctions, saying "This is important, this HAS to get done.", as if my work meant nothing (ps, he'd been sitting on his ass in front of the tv up until I got home)- I ended up back in my office until 9pm. When I voiced my opinion, I ended up sleeping on the couch! Because he usually works later than me with his retail schedule, I tend to make sure the house is clean and dinner's on the table when he gets home, but on his days off he sits here eating all the food in the house and trashing the place so I come home to a mess and I still have to go get food AND cook it myself; he NEVER does those things for me, but he claims that he does them all the time. He told me he loves me, but he wishes I wasn't crazy... Am I the crazy one because I want this relationship to be a partnership, not a dictatorship?