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Confused
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Submitted by blacknbootiful
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i am pregnant and the baby's father wants to get married but i dont want to because i have met this guy who i really, really like and he loves me and wants to be with me in spite of what everyone else thinks and in spite of my situation, but i know that my baby's father really loves me and would give anything for me, he would rather me cheat on him then leave him.
what should i do. i really want to be with the other guy.
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how long have u gone out w// the real father??
if u had sex w// this man then if u go w// the one that is not the father then u should let the baby still see the baby cuz the baby will have the right 2 see his real father!
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Don't get married to anyone if you are not sure...If you really want to be with the other guy, break up first with your current boyfriend and don't cheat. You are going to be a mother and you don't want him telling your new child lies when he,or she is older. You also want to continue to have a good relationship with the father but by cheating on him with another guy he will only resent you.
In reality, he will not be happy with you hooking up wtih another guy and it isnt him. Don;t get married and don;t cheat and please break up with the father. YOU need to let the father go. It seems that you are in love with someone else, and if you dont let the father go you are being selfish and not letting him find happiness in his future where whatever girl he finds, truly loves him 100 %. Don't u think the father of your child deserves to be in love the way you are in like,like feeling over this new guy.
Many times I am selfish too. It is very normal when it comes to making decisios about your life. I am older than you so I have been through many obsticales in my life so I am trying to lead you in the right direction.
hOpe this helps.
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O.k 1st of all u shouldn't worry about who U want to be with! Have u ever even thought about the baby? When he/she grows up and stsarts to wonder why he/she doesn't look like his/her daddy cause hes not the real daddy then u hve 2 think about what your gonna say.
Which would probably fall on the lines of Your REAL Daddy wanted me, but I am a little slut bec i chose to marry this other guy cause I didn't even care at the time I was pregnant with you.
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Hey
I totally understand ur baby's father position, sometimes you would rather your significant other to do what makes them happy and sometimes that may mean your partner being with someone else. Lets think how much he has to love you in order for him to say that he wants to be with you no matter what.
You have to follow ur heart and if that means breaking ur baby's father then you have to do what you have to do. You only live once and you should be happy all along the way. And before you start mating and conceiving you should make sure you want to be with the person, bc that complicates things.
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it is ok if you go with the other guy. i know you are pregnantt but choose the man who is kind, loving, sweet and go with the guy who has a better heart. that is what i say.
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