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I'm only 19 yrs old, I was in a relationship with a 26yr old. We just recently broke up on Februaury 17, 06. I’m going to take you guys back a couple of months ago. My cousin who is 23 is dating my boyfriend’s brother. My boyfriend’s brother was dating my sister for 5 yrs. They were still together when my cousin decided she wanted to mess with him to. Me and my cousin stop speaking me and her have gotten into 2 fists fights because of this situation. But because she is dating my boyfriend’s brother, my boyfriend feels he has the right to speak to her.

I had told him on many occasions that I did not want them speaking. I also approached her and tol her the same. On 3 different occasion I found my cousins cell # in my man’s phone. I deleted the # all 3 times, how is it that her # is in his phone again. I have caught them in his place of business talking and laughing (he owns a Laundromat, if she isn’t washing clothes she doesn’t belong in there, am i correct???). He lied about that whole situation. I mean lied.... It only gets better ladies... We had the best valentines day until he told me that he had to go to his sister’s house because they made dinner, so I spent the day with him but not the night..

Another lie, he wound up going out with his "friends" and getting arrested, how did I find out, Ii tried calling him and he never picked up none of his cell phones. Yes he has 2. I got up the next morning and I go to his business I gave him the benefit of the doubt and I didn’t assume anything… It took for me to go crying to his friend for his best friend to confess to me that they were out last night and had gotten caught.. We sat and spoke about it and he told me of course that he was sorry and that he didn’t mean to lie...

Whateva right. (this is the good part) in November of 05" we had broken up for 2 weeks and got back together in those 2 weeks I lost 6pds and looked horrible. In those 2 pds the love of my life decides he wants 2 meet someone else, we had gotten back together and according to him he had met her at dmv and they just talked for 2 weeks and that was it. I went through his phone and found the messages from her to him and him to her sayin "i can’t wait 2 see u miss u blah, blah, blah..i wound up memorizing her # and stored it in my phone.. Remember this is back in November. How is it that 3 days after valentines day on the 17th i get a call from a friend of mine that asked me if i was still with my boyfriend i said yea why? She told me that she was in school and that a girl in her class was talkin in arabic..(yes my boyfriend is arabic, i'm puerto rican) so my friend asked her how did she know how to speak arabic the girl tells her that her "boyfriend" is arabic. (not to confuse u guys but the school that my friend attends is right around the corner from the Laundromat") so my friend asked her what his name was and it happen to be my boyfriend’s name that came out of her mouth.

So my cousin calls me up she ask's me if we were still an item i told her yea she says well there's this girl named Nicole that's in my class that told me she's been with him since November.. ( are you guys gettin all this) so I put my emotions aside and thought about it and it happens to be the same girl he met at the d.m.v, remember I had her # in my phone since November but never called. So I call her up and I ask many of my questions one being when did the get together and when was the last time she saw him. They met in November and the last time she saw was on Valentines day.... Yes..(remember he told me he had to go eat dinner at his sisters house.) So of course he lied about everything. We are no longer together he has not even called. Ohh wait did I forget to mention that 2 days ago i broke into his voicemail (I figured out his password) and he had 1 saved message, who was it by?? Not Nicole.... My cousin. Yes u wouldn’t even believe what I heard but I forwarded the message to my cell phone.. Let me remind you she is still dating his brother. So what does that tell you...

My questions are: am i wrong for what i did or continue to do?
Am I psycho status? (he has me feeling this way)
What do I do now?
Should I approach him about the situation even though were no longer together?

Ladies I need help I'm so hurt, just to be lied to hurts the most but, for someone to make you believe they were the best thing to ever happen to you.... I feel lost, I feel hurt...he's a liar.